Saw this recently with boys “liking” and basic girls saying “didn’t work for me” etc… This is just stupid. By the way…I emphasize boys and girls.
What are you gonna do for me if I do all this for you? And no you shouldn’t do something just to get something in return…If I thought that I’d let you call me basic.
But honestly what are you doing for me to follow this advice…
-Are you rubbing my feet and giving me head after a long stressed day?
-Paying my bills?
No…OK then you ain’t getting none of that. So come on lets go ahead and clean, cook TOGETHER.
Its about spoiling each other and we can get there by making each other feel secure as your spouse.
That’s what I need to “shut the fuck up”.