Time Wasted….is Bullshit

I recently had a conversation with some one that triggered a memory of one of the most hurtful things someone has told me. “This whole relationship was a waste of time” I know what you’re thinking, if that was one of the most hurtful things, she’s heard after a relationship ended, she’s a lucky gal….

Hiding, Changing or Whatever

First, let’s paint the picture…five girls sitting around the dinner table, friends for over 20 years. It had been about five months since we last all got together so of course the mama bear of the group asked the question to all of us – “so what’s new with you”. I purposely moved by position…

My Picks

How amazing is it that we get to pick the people we allow into our life? Let me tell you about a few of my choices…. I picked you because it was safe.  I knew you would never hurt me with lies, other women, you would never hurt me with hands or words.  You opened…

Trust

TRUST is scarce. It’s one of the few things that takes merely seconds to break. So what does trust consist of. I’d say credibility, reliability, respect, loyalty & of course honesty. Let’s have some fun with this. What if I said some spouses are more satisfied with your phone password than an engagement. Sounds harsh…