Why I don’t follow my boyfriend on social media.

Social media is how we met but I refuse to let it be why we end. Social media has taken over many of our lives, yes I can admit it, even mine.  I’ve taken time away from it, I’ve deleted it but I always come back to it.  Why?  Is it because everyone is doing…

Social networks and our attention spans…

Social networks…shorten our attention spans. Yay or nay? I can see why many would say yes, especially when it comes to me. But at the same time it depends on attention from what? Work, Love, Family? Personally, I am a twitter-addict. I am aware and am not in denial. My job is stressful; I negotiate…

My Best

I’ve done my best. I have no doubt in that. I’m not perfect, but no one is. I was always there even if it was in a different way you wanted or a different way than you are used to…I was there. You asked me to fight like I never had before…I did. Even when…

Expectations…the enemy.

ACT WITH NO EXPECTATION.Sounds so simple and so peaceful. What’s that saying? Expectation is the root of all heartbreak? Ain’t that the truth…it’s a lesson I’ve learned. I like to think I’m over this; I don’t put many expectations on any situation or person. I live for the moment and don’t think about it in…

Beliefs…

I blame my parents. I blame them that I am 31 years old and do not have a REAL belief in God or even in there not being one.  I was born into a Catholic family…I was also the 4th child.  My sisters went to Catholic school but maybe by the time I came along…

What If

I know I’m not the only one that runs these ‘what if’ scenarios in my head.  We were all taught, trained, hypnotized to almost not think of this…we get the “No regrets, you learned a lesson” or “It just wasn’t meant to be” or even “God knows what he’s doing”.  I get it…BUT what if……….

Soooooooo Family Time, huh….

FAMILY . Do I love them yes…is it because I have to…probably.   I have an obsession with my pops.  He’s cool as shit and much like me with the “not a big deal”, “better you than me” & “keep it honest” approach to living.  I don’t have daddy issues one bit but I’m sure some of my ex’s wish…