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If you’re a follower of my blog this post will surprise you. I’m far from political but I am human. A human that bleeds red, bruises black (like all of us) and that continuously works on being kind, empathetic, compassionate, respectful and just decent to all. Yes, all… no matter their income level, education level…

Guilt

It’s one of the most toxic and worse feelings we can feel. It has the ability to eat you alive… literally. Yet if you never felt guilt … you could be considered a psychopath. It doesn’t matter why you felt it; whether as a parent, a lover, a friend, whatever role in your life it…

The Ultimate Act

Forgiveness is the intentional and voluntary process by which a victim undergoes a change in feelings and attitude regarding an offense, lets go of negative emotions such as vengefulness, with an increased ability to wish the offender well. Goodness. Deep…and it should be – forgiving is the ultimate act us humans can do.   Forgiveness…

Breaking Up

Breaking up with someone is hard no matter the situation. But guess what there will be break ups in our lives that will be rewarding, ones that will be a surprise and ones that will be confusing.  And they are all okay. Now what about if you are the one doing the breaking and actually…

This Writing Thing.

I get a lot of emails, texts, calls asking if what I write about are my own experiences. Short answer, yes.I don’t have the best memory so there are times when I’m talking to my family or friends, reading a book, or watching a movie that triggers some thing in my memory that relates to…

When to stop exploring.

It started because it was a thought that never left, therefore making it worth the risk to explore.  Explore what exactly…. Explore the why has it been so easy to forget others but not now.  Explore the possibility of being worth a change in another human.  Explore the absence of that butterfly feeling. It ended…

Words

The tongue has no bones, but is strong enough to break a heart. Well shit, ain’t this the truth. Words are so powerful. Simply put, words are game changers because once said they can be forgiven but never forgotten. Words can impact people in many places…the soul, the heart, the mind and not just on…

To You,

There are so many things that don’t make sense about me (even to myself) but those things make sense when I’m with you. I’ve been lucky in the past…I’ve been loved unconditionally but I couldn’t do the same.  I now no why.   I like to think you know me well enough to know that I’m…

Cuffing Season

This shit is real. It begins right after the summer ends, when the little nip is felt in the air. The flirty texts turn nicer.  The invites to hang out are more frequent.  The questions asked become more serious. Be careful…it’s happening.  He or she are trying to pin you down for the season.  They…