I send these (mixed signals)…a lot. I don’t even know if I’d call them signals, I don’t know how else to describe it. Especially in the last year…as I’m in the FUCK a relationship phase of my life. I’ve been so good for so long. I’ve done the good lil girlfriend, the good lil woman that played house. I’m done with that shit. I didn’t think it would last a year…fact is I don’t see this “phase” leaving anytime soon. I don’t want to worry about anything but myself & my daughter.
But then at the same time…I enjoy a man’s company, I enjoy the “get to know you stage”…in order to have that, you have to be charming. That is something that I am. I will tell him things that I really do mean AT THAT MOMENT. When I go back and read it or replay the convo in my head I say oh fuck he’s gonna fall. Then he does…then I have to look bipolar & retract or even easier..pretend I was drunk. I’m not proud of it, I’m really not. I did this recently to a man who really was textbook PERFECT. I just didn’t want what he wanted. He still texts me weekly -he wants to check if I’ve changed my mind and am ready for a relationship…I’m not but am I nice, yes. Is this keeping him in the backburner, to me no, to him? possibly since he has feelings in it. I can’t ignore. I have manners -unless you fucked me over I will not ignore. It’s rude.
One thing I am is honest. I will never lie to him. I keep it honest. So mixed signals…maybe but I do my best to explain why.
I’m sorry is used a lot from me.