Time Wasted….is Bullshit

I recently had a conversation with some one that triggered a memory of one of the most hurtful things someone has told me. “This whole relationship was a waste of time” I know what you’re thinking, if that was one of the most hurtful things, she’s heard after a relationship ended, she’s a lucky gal….

Forbidden

That’s a sexy ass word, isn’t it? I mean goodness the definition is to not be allowed/to be banned from a person or a thing, I don’t know about you but that makes me want that thing even more. Call it childish or selfish and you may be right but isn’t that part of self…

When to stop exploring.

It started because it was a thought that never left, therefore making it worth the risk to explore.  Explore what exactly…. Explore the why has it been so easy to forget others but not now.  Explore the possibility of being worth a change in another human.  Explore the absence of that butterfly feeling. It ended…

Unfaithful

Not sure what is the first thing that comes to your mind when seeing that title…but mine is YIKES. I don’t even mean it in a relationship only…you can be unfaithful in many aspects of life. For sake of this writing..let’s talk about relationships between two people. Real people stay faithful; they don’t have time…

Things that make you (or just me) go hmmm

My mom was married to my dad for almost 30 years… divorce wasn’t her idea, it was my dad’s.  Just thought I’d put that out there. Any who After that my mom began to date.  She met her now husband & when I asked her if she was in love with him.  She said “he…

I Love You

Those 3 words spoke together can do a lot. I’m sure we’ve all said them when we didn’t mean it.  I know I have, I blame immaturity for that but also vulnerability in the moment.  This is something I will never do again.  I’m grown now.  I understand those 3 words are powerful, they are…

Mixed Signals ….

I send these (mixed signals)…a lot. I don’t even know if I’d call them signals, I don’t know how else to describe it.  Especially in the last year…as I’m in the FUCK a relationship phase of my life.  I’ve been so good for so long.  I’ve done the good lil girlfriend, the good lil woman…

Reminisce Day .. & For No Good Reason Either

This is the longest I’ve been single post high school and its been bittersweet. I’ve gone through happiness, loneliness, disappointment, sadness, curiosity, excitement… I’ve thought of each of my serious relationships and by serious I mean meet the parents. They have all one thing in common…I assisted with the demise (I love that word). 1-…