Loving The Same?

I’ve come across a lot of blogs, quotes, status updates lately…that basically say “find someone who loves like you”.  Now usually, I don’t even give it a thought but lately I have been and seem to agree with it. Hear me out. I wholeheartedly feel a big part of the fun in a relationship are…

Why I don’t follow my boyfriend on social media.

Social media is how we met but I refuse to let it be why we end. Social media has taken over many of our lives, yes I can admit it, even mine.  I’ve taken time away from it, I’ve deleted it but I always come back to it.  Why?  Is it because everyone is doing…

Single person…not a single parent

Ok so I haven’t written about me being a mom in quite a while and if I’m honest with myself it’s because I’m being selfish.  My writing is when I’m alone in bed after a long day of working, being a mom, being a girlfriend, a confidante, etc… I am these things every day.  These…

When to stop exploring.

It started because it was a thought that never left, therefore making it worth the risk to explore.  Explore what exactly…. Explore the why has it been so easy to forget others but not now.  Explore the possibility of being worth a change in another human.  Explore the absence of that butterfly feeling. It ended…

Cheating

I’ve done it..we all likely have at sometime in our life.  A small fib on your resume, a look over at someone’s test, skipping numbers during ab exercising.  But lets get real when we hear the word “cheating” we automatically think of on a spouse. This I’ve never done. At least not by my definition…

The Unspoken Rule

Relationships are hard; can’t get any simpler than that statement. And I mean ALL relationships not just spouses but also the relationships between friends, family and co-workers. I’ve always been one to walk away pretty easy from relationships that are one sided or ones that don’t enrich me. What’s the point of doing things for…

Value, it’s important.

A noun: the regard that something is held to deserve; the importance, worth, or usefulness of something. A verb: consider (someone or something) to be important or beneficial; have a high opinion of. Whichever way you define it….it is necessary for our esteem. No not just women, all. Why did this come to my mind?I…

Words

The tongue has no bones, but is strong enough to break a heart. Well shit, ain’t this the truth. Words are so powerful. Simply put, words are game changers because once said they can be forgiven but never forgotten. Words can impact people in many places…the soul, the heart, the mind and not just on…

Beyond…

The past 2 months have been ‘something’. It started with a week away from my home.. a time where I talked to my two older sisters while also myself. Even did some meditating & jogging (ok ok only once). One sister is to the point- go with your heart, while the other is fuck that…