My Picks

How amazing is it that we get to pick the people we allow into our life? Let me tell you about a few of my choices…. I picked you because it was safe.  I knew you would never hurt me with lies, other women, you would never hurt me with hands or words.  You opened…

My Conscious Self

We all have one and we all spend most of the time pushing it to the back of our minds, ignoring it because it’s not what we want to believe. My Conscious Self would do anything to avoid selfish people, people with a temper, judgemental people, people that make me feel worthless…question my being even. …

Resent

Resentment is evil. I’m not sure why but this time it’s bullied me and won. It’s a word that would’ve never been able to be used when describing me until recently and I’m not proud of it. Once the optimistic, glass half full, happy person and now I struggle to think so positive. I’ve always…

Why I don’t follow my boyfriend on social media.

Social media is how we met but I refuse to let it be why we end. Social media has taken over many of our lives, yes I can admit it, even mine.  I’ve taken time away from it, I’ve deleted it but I always come back to it.  Why?  Is it because everyone is doing…

Single person…not a single parent

Ok so I haven’t written about me being a mom in quite a while and if I’m honest with myself it’s because I’m being selfish.  My writing is when I’m alone in bed after a long day of working, being a mom, being a girlfriend, a confidante, etc… I am these things every day.  These…

I

I am raw. I am hilarious. I am generous. I am thoughtful. I am beautiful. I am sensitive. I am emotional. I am curious. I am loyal. I am observant. I am confident. I am a hardworker. I am charming. I am a risk taker. I am lonely. I am positive. I am worthy of…

I went to “church”

Yup you read it right… I went to “church” why the quotation marks because it’s not called church, it’s called a meeting but who would read this if I put I went to a meeting.. exactly. So I went to a meeting, I actually been to a few now. But this is the first one…

When to stop exploring.

It started because it was a thought that never left, therefore making it worth the risk to explore.  Explore what exactly…. Explore the why has it been so easy to forget others but not now.  Explore the possibility of being worth a change in another human.  Explore the absence of that butterfly feeling. It ended…

Cheating

I’ve done it..we all likely have at sometime in our life.  A small fib on your resume, a look over at someone’s test, skipping numbers during ab exercising.  But lets get real when we hear the word “cheating” we automatically think of on a spouse. This I’ve never done. At least not by my definition…