My Anniversary

A year ago today I wrote my first entry.  I don’t feel right calling it a blog…because I kind of just write; I don’t publicize it; I like getting feedback but it’s not necessary. A few people have reached out to me and told me how it has helped or made them realize some things…that’s…

Enough

Happiness. One word with so many meanings to each of us.  One word that determines who we are as a person.  This is what we all pursue in life…right? I personally think that GENUINE happiness is unattainable.   I know Negative Nancy kinda thinking…but seriously.  GENUINE & COMPLETE HAPPINESS in every aspect of life.  Naah…

Beliefs…

I blame my parents. I blame them that I am 31 years old and do not have a REAL belief in God or even in there not being one.  I was born into a Catholic family…I was also the 4th child.  My sisters went to Catholic school but maybe by the time I came along…

The Decision

So,  we all have that person.  That person that makes you say “what if”.  They say… we all have that person. I really didn’t think I had one.  I do.  And he’s back. Now what? He’s saying the right things but most importantly his actions are showing his changes.  Did he change because of you,…

Just a Few of My Lessons…I read this every few days

life lessons -associate yourself with people of good quality -make yourself simple but significant -ignore a lot -when ppl show you who they are, believe them the 1st time -don’t have expectations -If you have to cry, go outside -don’t be reckless with other peoples heart -if it is right, it happens -don’t hurry -be…

NAKED

I know I’m not the only one.  Thinking that that getting “naked” with someone…meant sex, foreplay… that had to mean that I was opening up, that I was letting that person in. False. That’s too easy.  Take off your clothes -you do it everyday to get in the shower…EASY.  Have sex -you’ve done it before (most likely) …EASY….

Hero

I’m the hero of my story…I don’t need to be told what to do, how to do it, when.. you know the rest.  I’m a woman, so automatically most would say I’m weak, easily deterred and in need of something because why…because majority of woman are never satisfied. Don’t get me wrong, I’m one of…