Gray

I’m going to start this with saying – my daughter, up until the age of about 7-8 could only think in black and white because she hadn’t developed the cognitive skills required to see both sides of an issue or situation. Fast forward to 11 and I’m introducing her to gray and that it’s okay….

Hey you, teenage self – come here and read this!

If I could talk to my teenage self, the one thing I would say is be intentional. Intentional in all aspects of your life; from your daily interactions, to your job, to your relationships and family – absolutely EVERY aspect of your life. What do I mean by being intentional? In simple term, is it…

2015

Woke up today with two precious people in my life and one of the first things I did was fill out a new year declaration on Instagram. I also deleted the 4 drafts I had on here that I continued to go back to for the last 2 months. So something I’ve never done is…

Me

We all know the importance of loving, appreciating and celebrating ones self.  You know what they say… you can’t love someone else until you love yourself.  I get it, I believe it and guess what I love the fuck out of myself.  Why, do you ask? I’m relaxed.  Rarely do I get riled up over…

Parenting To Me

If I was a frog I’d be alone on my tadpole when it came to parenting. I know that we all parent different, I don’t judge you but shit you sure as hell judge me. Is it because I am not married to her father? Maybe is it because you are just a judgmental prick,…

Let’s Go Back

Let’s go back to the times where you actually have to see someone or call someone to catch up on their life. Social media has taken over and no I’m not bashing it; I’m guilty of it but I want to get better WITHOUT it. Right now, I scroll through my news feed on Facebook,…

But

I want so badly to be happy, but I think of things that make me sad.  I’m lazy, yet I want so much.  I say I don’t care, but truth is I care too much that I’m embarrassed.  I like attention, but reject it when I get it.  I wouldn’t say I’m depressed because I’m…

Beyond…

The past 2 months have been ‘something’. It started with a week away from my home.. a time where I talked to my two older sisters while also myself. Even did some meditating & jogging (ok ok only once). One sister is to the point- go with your heart, while the other is fuck that…

Just a Few of My Lessons…I read this every few days

life lessons -associate yourself with people of good quality -make yourself simple but significant -ignore a lot -when ppl show you who they are, believe them the 1st time -don’t have expectations -If you have to cry, go outside -don’t be reckless with other peoples heart -if it is right, it happens -don’t hurry -be…