We all know the importance of loving, appreciating and celebrating ones self.  You know what they say… you can’t love someone else until you love yourself.  I get it, I believe it and guess what I love the fuck out of myself.  Why, do you ask?
I’m relaxed.  Rarely do I get riled up over anything.  I’m a free spirit,  a liberal, a lover of people, accepting of people.

I’m open-minded. I crave for a world of happiness without judgement.  Everyone should live life how they want to live their life; they are the ones paying for their life; its common sense to me.  BE HAPPY.

I’m confident.  I don’t feel the need to explain myself to anyone.  If you don’t like how I live, that’s fine.  I really don’t care.  I don’t live to please other people.

I’m forgiving.  I have been hurt a few times over by people I never thought would hurt me.  But guess what…I realize that they are now happier; so who am I to hate on that. No one; I won’t stop anyone from being happy. EVER.  Holding onto anger or resent is poison.  Poison isn’t welcomed in my life.

I’m reflective.  I look back on things that have happened in my life; I consider and ponder how they have impacted me for good or bad because of course there are things I have done I shouldn’t have done, things I have said that I wish to take back but guess what “it is what it is”.

I’m compassionate.    I consider myself and confident others see me as a good person.  I care about others and work on helping others when I am able to whether that’s with an ear or a hand.  This goes back to being forgiving also.

I’m understanding.  Sometimes I think this is a weakness but it’s really quite nice too.  I have the ability to understand how others feel, even if I’ve never been through the same experience.  I tend to give people slack or make excuses for others actions, this is the weakness in being understanding.  I hate that I make excuses for others.

I’m confident.  This is not cocky or stuck up.  I just have a good self-image about myself (for the most part) and I believe I do deserve the best.

I’m adaptable.  No other choice; things rarely go my way, but I get over it pretty quick & keep on moving.  I also am able to be thrown in front of any scene/group/person and will adapt, I will be comfortable.

I’m humorous.  I don’t take myself too seriously, and really try to find humor in most aspects of my life.

I’m full of initiative.   I tend to be a leader and take the first step in a group setting and in a relationship.

I want to be more though, I want to be BALANCED, I want to always be LEARNING, I want to be more INTUITIVE.  Lord let’s not turn this into what I’m not, HA!  So there I am summed up.  Yes, I know you all cared.

XO -JC