I have always been able to let go of toxins easily…and by toxins I mean humans.
I think I am good at this because I am able to assess & process. I could probably thank my career for this.
Now, don’t get me wrong …I go back & forth, I have head spinning emotions, ego crushing moments, food/booze binges, crying so hard I fear drowning times. I am human.
But at the end I take a situation for what it is..
I am able to say no
I am able to be selfish
Most importantly I am able to know when something isn’t best for me.
I don’t have unrealistic expectations but I know some people may not be able to live up to even the simplest expectation. Not every person that comes into my life will be who I want them to be in my life. Not every person that comes into my life will be capable of loyalty.
I also know I can’t change anyone and that people come & go.
Oh…and just because I can let go -it doesn’t mean I don’t look back and run the emotions again. But you sure as hell won’t know when I do that.
Be strong -xoxo JC