A year ago today I wrote my first entry. I don’t feel right calling it a blog…because I kind of just write; I don’t publicize it; I like getting feedback but it’s not necessary. A few people have reached out to me and told me how it has helped or made them realize some things…that’s…
Author: msjadore
Ramblings from a chick that confuses herself on a daily basis.
Enough
Happiness. One word with so many meanings to each of us. One word that determines who we are as a person. This is what we all pursue in life…right? I personally think that GENUINE happiness is unattainable. I know Negative Nancy kinda thinking…but seriously. GENUINE & COMPLETE HAPPINESS in every aspect of life. Naah…
Cuffing Season
This shit is real. It begins right after the summer ends, when the little nip is felt in the air. The flirty texts turn nicer. The invites to hang out are more frequent. The questions asked become more serious. Be careful…it’s happening. He or she are trying to pin you down for the season. They…
“I Miss You”
You know how I feel about the “I miss you” statement or the “do you miss me” question. I’ve said it before..there are not too many people that I genuinely miss. Well this is because I was measuring this all wrong… It’s not about the time away from that person that you miss; it’s about doing something and…
Things that make you (or just me) go hmmm
My mom was married to my dad for almost 30 years… divorce wasn’t her idea, it was my dad’s. Just thought I’d put that out there. Any who After that my mom began to date. She met her now husband & when I asked her if she was in love with him. She said “he…
Stresses
So if you could reduce or even prevent stress why wouldn’t you? There are certain stresses that we call AUTOMATIC stresses: family, work, kids & of course money can be put under all 3 of those. Unless you are in the perfect career with the perfect amount of workload or your family is perfect with…
I Love You
Those 3 words spoke together can do a lot. I’m sure we’ve all said them when we didn’t mean it. I know I have, I blame immaturity for that but also vulnerability in the moment. This is something I will never do again. I’m grown now. I understand those 3 words are powerful, they are…
The Decision
So, we all have that person. That person that makes you say “what if”. They say… we all have that person. I really didn’t think I had one. I do. And he’s back. Now what? He’s saying the right things but most importantly his actions are showing his changes. Did he change because of you,…
Just a Few of My Lessons…I read this every few days
life lessons -associate yourself with people of good quality -make yourself simple but significant -ignore a lot -when ppl show you who they are, believe them the 1st time -don’t have expectations -If you have to cry, go outside -don’t be reckless with other peoples heart -if it is right, it happens -don’t hurry -be…
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