Hiding, Changing or Whatever

First, let’s paint the picture…five girls sitting around the dinner table, friends for over 20 years. It had been about five months since we last all got together so of course the mama bear of the group asked the question to all of us – “so what’s new with you”. I purposely moved by position…

2015

Woke up today with two precious people in my life and one of the first things I did was fill out a new year declaration on Instagram. I also deleted the 4 drafts I had on here that I continued to go back to for the last 2 months. So something I’ve never done is…

When to stop exploring.

It started because it was a thought that never left, therefore making it worth the risk to explore.  Explore what exactly…. Explore the why has it been so easy to forget others but not now.  Explore the possibility of being worth a change in another human.  Explore the absence of that butterfly feeling. It ended…

Cheating

I’ve done it..we all likely have at sometime in our life.  A small fib on your resume, a look over at someone’s test, skipping numbers during ab exercising.  But lets get real when we hear the word “cheating” we automatically think of on a spouse. This I’ve never done. At least not by my definition…

Resolutions

I’ve never been one to make resolutions for the New Year but being how challenging 2013 was to me I decided to change that up. Myself -learn to say no without explaining myself No reason for this its just a necessity for all of us. -think before I act or say With this also comes…

The Unspoken Rule

Relationships are hard; can’t get any simpler than that statement. And I mean ALL relationships not just spouses but also the relationships between friends, family and co-workers. I’ve always been one to walk away pretty easy from relationships that are one sided or ones that don’t enrich me. What’s the point of doing things for…

The Decision

So,  we all have that person.  That person that makes you say “what if”.  They say… we all have that person. I really didn’t think I had one.  I do.  And he’s back. Now what? He’s saying the right things but most importantly his actions are showing his changes.  Did he change because of you,…