My Picks

How amazing is it that we get to pick the people we allow into our life? Let me tell you about a few of my choices…. I picked you because it was safe.  I knew you would never hurt me with lies, other women, you would never hurt me with hands or words.  You opened…

Loving The Same?

I’ve come across a lot of blogs, quotes, status updates lately…that basically say “find someone who loves like you”.  Now usually, I don’t even give it a thought but lately I have been and seem to agree with it. Hear me out. I wholeheartedly feel a big part of the fun in a relationship are…

Why I don’t follow my boyfriend on social media.

Social media is how we met but I refuse to let it be why we end. Social media has taken over many of our lives, yes I can admit it, even mine.  I’ve taken time away from it, I’ve deleted it but I always come back to it.  Why?  Is it because everyone is doing…

Single person…not a single parent

Ok so I haven’t written about me being a mom in quite a while and if I’m honest with myself it’s because I’m being selfish.  My writing is when I’m alone in bed after a long day of working, being a mom, being a girlfriend, a confidante, etc… I am these things every day.  These…

I

I am raw. I am hilarious. I am generous. I am thoughtful. I am beautiful. I am sensitive. I am emotional. I am curious. I am loyal. I am observant. I am confident. I am a hardworker. I am charming. I am a risk taker. I am lonely. I am positive. I am worthy of…

The Unspoken Rule

Relationships are hard; can’t get any simpler than that statement. And I mean ALL relationships not just spouses but also the relationships between friends, family and co-workers. I’ve always been one to walk away pretty easy from relationships that are one sided or ones that don’t enrich me. What’s the point of doing things for…

Value, it’s important.

A noun: the regard that something is held to deserve; the importance, worth, or usefulness of something. A verb: consider (someone or something) to be important or beneficial; have a high opinion of. Whichever way you define it….it is necessary for our esteem. No not just women, all. Why did this come to my mind?I…

Beyond…

The past 2 months have been ‘something’. It started with a week away from my home.. a time where I talked to my two older sisters while also myself. Even did some meditating & jogging (ok ok only once). One sister is to the point- go with your heart, while the other is fuck that…

Falling

Falling in LOVE is so dope.  Falling out of it is horrible.  I have fallen and it’s been quick.  I give people the benefit of the doubt…I start off with full trust with my heart on my sleeve.  I hate it about myself. BUT -I do it without even knowing I am doing it.  It’s…