Falling

Falling in LOVE is so dope.  Falling out of it is horrible.  I have fallen and it’s been quick.  I give people the benefit of the doubt…I start off with full trust with my heart on my sleeve.  I hate it about myself. BUT -I do it without even knowing I am doing it.  It’s…

My Best

I’ve done my best. I have no doubt in that. I’m not perfect, but no one is. I was always there even if it was in a different way you wanted or a different way than you are used to…I was there. You asked me to fight like I never had before…I did. Even when…

Sociopath, Not Vulnerable, a Lil Girl…

These are just a few ways I’ve been described in the past few hours…yes hours.  What in the entire fuck and please back the fuck down is my gut reaction. Its funny that men are the ones that describe me this way…all 3 have been cheated on in their own past relationships.  Coincidence?  I think…

Expectations…the enemy.

ACT WITH NO EXPECTATION.Sounds so simple and so peaceful. What’s that saying? Expectation is the root of all heartbreak? Ain’t that the truth…it’s a lesson I’ve learned. I like to think I’m over this; I don’t put many expectations on any situation or person. I live for the moment and don’t think about it in…

Unfaithful

Not sure what is the first thing that comes to your mind when seeing that title…but mine is YIKES. I don’t even mean it in a relationship only…you can be unfaithful in many aspects of life. For sake of this writing..let’s talk about relationships between two people. Real people stay faithful; they don’t have time…

Letting Go…

I have always been able to let go of toxins easily…and by toxins I mean humans.   I think I am good at this because I am able to assess & process.  I could probably thank my career for this.  Now, don’t get me wrong …I go back & forth, I have head spinning emotions,…

IT

I know what you are thinking & it’s not that. I like to believe that I keep it pretty real to myself whether good or bad.  As I’ve also expressed in this here blog, I have been quite lucky in my life when it comes to men and my experiences with them.  I’ve led the…

Intuition.

I turn 32 this week. I thought I made grown up decisions before but I made a really grown up decision. Probably the hardest one I had to make because it was made out of intuition…sort of. My definition of intuition: Something that every woman has where you just know. Whether it’s your being cheated…

Cuffing Season

This shit is real. It begins right after the summer ends, when the little nip is felt in the air. The flirty texts turn nicer.  The invites to hang out are more frequent.  The questions asked become more serious. Be careful…it’s happening.  He or she are trying to pin you down for the season.  They…

“I Miss You”

You know how I feel about the “I miss you” statement or the “do you miss me” question. I’ve said it before..there are not too many people that I genuinely miss. Well this is because I was measuring this all wrong… It’s not about the time away from that person that you miss; it’s about doing something and…