I turn 32 this week. I thought I made grown up decisions before but I made a really grown up decision. Probably the hardest one I had to make because it was made out of intuition…sort of. My definition of intuition: Something that every woman has where you just know. Whether it’s your being cheated…
Category: Relationships
Me, the introvert.
I want and more importantly need to be alone quite often. Its when I’m at my happiest. Its me. With this comes hurt feelings. I don’t care. Its likely that if you don’t spend much time with yourself, I won’t like you much anyway. I mean, get a life. Do you. Get a hobby…whatever the…
Cuffing Season
This shit is real. It begins right after the summer ends, when the little nip is felt in the air. The flirty texts turn nicer. The invites to hang out are more frequent. The questions asked become more serious. Be careful…it’s happening. He or she are trying to pin you down for the season. They…
“I Miss You”
You know how I feel about the “I miss you” statement or the “do you miss me” question. I’ve said it before..there are not too many people that I genuinely miss. Well this is because I was measuring this all wrong… It’s not about the time away from that person that you miss; it’s about doing something and…
Things that make you (or just me) go hmmm
My mom was married to my dad for almost 30 years… divorce wasn’t her idea, it was my dad’s. Just thought I’d put that out there. Any who After that my mom began to date. She met her now husband & when I asked her if she was in love with him. She said “he…
Stresses
So if you could reduce or even prevent stress why wouldn’t you? There are certain stresses that we call AUTOMATIC stresses: family, work, kids & of course money can be put under all 3 of those. Unless you are in the perfect career with the perfect amount of workload or your family is perfect with…
I Love You
Those 3 words spoke together can do a lot. I’m sure we’ve all said them when we didn’t mean it. I know I have, I blame immaturity for that but also vulnerability in the moment. This is something I will never do again. I’m grown now. I understand those 3 words are powerful, they are…
The Decision
So, we all have that person. That person that makes you say “what if”. They say… we all have that person. I really didn’t think I had one. I do. And he’s back. Now what? He’s saying the right things but most importantly his actions are showing his changes. Did he change because of you,…
Music
“Music is a higher revelation than all wisdom and philosphy. Music is the electrical soil in which the spirit lives, thinks and invents.” ~ Ludwig van Beethoven ~ Music is dope, that pretty much sums it up. Music is an escape for a lot of us; no matter the kind you listen to, no matter…
The Line
So you meet someone. You click. Shit is going good. You start getting to know them better – start to know their thoughts, values, opinions, you know all that ‘important’ stuff. Then it comes to the point where you have to decide what to do with that person. Is this person going into a friend zone…
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