Loving The Same?

I’ve come across a lot of blogs, quotes, status updates lately…that basically say “find someone who loves like you”.  Now usually, I don’t even give it a thought but lately I have been and seem to agree with it. Hear me out. I wholeheartedly feel a big part of the fun in a relationship are…

Single person…not a single parent

Ok so I haven’t written about me being a mom in quite a while and if I’m honest with myself it’s because I’m being selfish.  My writing is when I’m alone in bed after a long day of working, being a mom, being a girlfriend, a confidante, etc… I am these things every day.  These…

When to stop exploring.

It started because it was a thought that never left, therefore making it worth the risk to explore.  Explore what exactly…. Explore the why has it been so easy to forget others but not now.  Explore the possibility of being worth a change in another human.  Explore the absence of that butterfly feeling. It ended…

Cheating

I’ve done it..we all likely have at sometime in our life.  A small fib on your resume, a look over at someone’s test, skipping numbers during ab exercising.  But lets get real when we hear the word “cheating” we automatically think of on a spouse. This I’ve never done. At least not by my definition…

But

I want so badly to be happy, but I think of things that make me sad.  I’m lazy, yet I want so much.  I say I don’t care, but truth is I care too much that I’m embarrassed.  I like attention, but reject it when I get it.  I wouldn’t say I’m depressed because I’m…

Social networks and our attention spans…

Social networks…shorten our attention spans. Yay or nay? I can see why many would say yes, especially when it comes to me. But at the same time it depends on attention from what? Work, Love, Family? Personally, I am a twitter-addict. I am aware and am not in denial. My job is stressful; I negotiate…

Falling

Falling in LOVE is so dope.  Falling out of it is horrible.  I have fallen and it’s been quick.  I give people the benefit of the doubt…I start off with full trust with my heart on my sleeve.  I hate it about myself. BUT -I do it without even knowing I am doing it.  It’s…

My Best

I’ve done my best. I have no doubt in that. I’m not perfect, but no one is. I was always there even if it was in a different way you wanted or a different way than you are used to…I was there. You asked me to fight like I never had before…I did. Even when…

Expectations…the enemy.

ACT WITH NO EXPECTATION.Sounds so simple and so peaceful. What’s that saying? Expectation is the root of all heartbreak? Ain’t that the truth…it’s a lesson I’ve learned. I like to think I’m over this; I don’t put many expectations on any situation or person. I live for the moment and don’t think about it in…

Things that make you (or just me) go hmmm

My mom was married to my dad for almost 30 years… divorce wasn’t her idea, it was my dad’s.  Just thought I’d put that out there. Any who After that my mom began to date.  She met her now husband & when I asked her if she was in love with him.  She said “he…