I’ve come across a lot of blogs, quotes, status updates lately…that basically say “find someone who loves like you”. Now usually, I don’t even give it a thought but lately I have been and seem to agree with it. Hear me out. I wholeheartedly feel a big part of the fun in a relationship are…
Tag: relationships
Why I don’t follow my boyfriend on social media.
Social media is how we met but I refuse to let it be why we end. Social media has taken over many of our lives, yes I can admit it, even mine. I’ve taken time away from it, I’ve deleted it but I always come back to it. Why? Is it because everyone is doing…
Cheating
I’ve done it..we all likely have at sometime in our life. A small fib on your resume, a look over at someone’s test, skipping numbers during ab exercising. But lets get real when we hear the word “cheating” we automatically think of on a spouse. This I’ve never done. At least not by my definition…
The Unspoken Rule
Relationships are hard; can’t get any simpler than that statement. And I mean ALL relationships not just spouses but also the relationships between friends, family and co-workers. I’ve always been one to walk away pretty easy from relationships that are one sided or ones that don’t enrich me. What’s the point of doing things for…
Sociopath, Not Vulnerable, a Lil Girl…
These are just a few ways I’ve been described in the past few hours…yes hours. What in the entire fuck and please back the fuck down is my gut reaction. Its funny that men are the ones that describe me this way…all 3 have been cheated on in their own past relationships. Coincidence? I think…
Trust
TRUST is scarce. It’s one of the few things that takes merely seconds to break. So what does trust consist of. I’d say credibility, reliability, respect, loyalty & of course honesty. Let’s have some fun with this. What if I said some spouses are more satisfied with your phone password than an engagement. Sounds harsh…
Cuffing Season
This shit is real. It begins right after the summer ends, when the little nip is felt in the air. The flirty texts turn nicer. The invites to hang out are more frequent. The questions asked become more serious. Be careful…it’s happening. He or she are trying to pin you down for the season. They…
“I Miss You”
You know how I feel about the “I miss you” statement or the “do you miss me” question. I’ve said it before..there are not too many people that I genuinely miss. Well this is because I was measuring this all wrong… It’s not about the time away from that person that you miss; it’s about doing something and…