Falling in LOVE is so dope. Falling out of it is horrible. I have fallen and it’s been quick. I give people the benefit of the doubt…I start off with full trust with my heart on my sleeve. I hate it about myself. BUT -I do it without even knowing I am doing it. It’s…
Category: Relationships
Flaws…fun sometimes
We all have them FLAWS…sometimes we see them as flaws, sometimes we don’t and others do. Either way..we do ALL have them. Let me tell you some of mine because… well, why not? I like being alone A LOT ..an introvert at its best – I need it to be sane. I need that time to…
Sociopath, Not Vulnerable, a Lil Girl…
These are just a few ways I’ve been described in the past few hours…yes hours. What in the entire fuck and please back the fuck down is my gut reaction. Its funny that men are the ones that describe me this way…all 3 have been cheated on in their own past relationships. Coincidence? I think…
Trust
TRUST is scarce. It’s one of the few things that takes merely seconds to break. So what does trust consist of. I’d say credibility, reliability, respect, loyalty & of course honesty. Let’s have some fun with this. What if I said some spouses are more satisfied with your phone password than an engagement. Sounds harsh…
Expectations…the enemy.
ACT WITH NO EXPECTATION.Sounds so simple and so peaceful. What’s that saying? Expectation is the root of all heartbreak? Ain’t that the truth…it’s a lesson I’ve learned. I like to think I’m over this; I don’t put many expectations on any situation or person. I live for the moment and don’t think about it in…
Are you cared for?
First response…YES. But think of it deeper…are you cared for by someone other than family? We all have friends…these friends could be a part of your life for decades but do they care for you genuinely or has it became a habit/behavior to them. When you tell them a story that means a lot to…
Unfaithful
Not sure what is the first thing that comes to your mind when seeing that title…but mine is YIKES. I don’t even mean it in a relationship only…you can be unfaithful in many aspects of life. For sake of this writing..let’s talk about relationships between two people. Real people stay faithful; they don’t have time…
Letting Go…
I have always been able to let go of toxins easily…and by toxins I mean humans. I think I am good at this because I am able to assess & process. I could probably thank my career for this. Now, don’t get me wrong …I go back & forth, I have head spinning emotions,…
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