So if you could reduce or even prevent stress why wouldn’t you? There are certain stresses that we call AUTOMATIC stresses: family, work, kids & of course money can be put under all 3 of those. Unless you are in the perfect career with the perfect amount of workload or your family is perfect with…
Tag: relationships
The Decision
So, we all have that person. That person that makes you say “what if”. They say… we all have that person. I really didn’t think I had one. I do. And he’s back. Now what? He’s saying the right things but most importantly his actions are showing his changes. Did he change because of you,…
The Line
So you meet someone. You click. Shit is going good. You start getting to know them better – start to know their thoughts, values, opinions, you know all that ‘important’ stuff. Then it comes to the point where you have to decide what to do with that person. Is this person going into a friend zone…
Who’s to Blame?
On twitter recently one of my faves (@yesImthatdope) asked: You talk…flirt…text…hang out. THEN find out they have a significant other. Your fault for not asking? Or his/hers for not saying? This shit tore me. I couldn’t answer. I personally don’t give out information freely so I can’t be mad at someone else for doing the…
What If
I know I’m not the only one that runs these ‘what if’ scenarios in my head. We were all taught, trained, hypnotized to almost not think of this…we get the “No regrets, you learned a lesson” or “It just wasn’t meant to be” or even “God knows what he’s doing”. I get it…BUT what if……….
What I Miss
As I’ve said before….the whole “I miss you” is very hard for me to say. I miss my daughter when she’s at her dad’s, I miss my family in NY & DR -barely though. I can tell you I do miss some things about being with a significant other, this isn’t even one person. These…
Sanity while Relationship-ing It.
First. Yes I know relationshiping is not a word I simply like it. As my bio says I’m single so not sure who I think I am with this ‘rambling’ but I do make notes after each ‘experience’ I’ve had with boys & men. You might read this, laugh, roll your eyes, whatever..because how am…
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